Example: “I am an excellent communicator. I pride myself on making sure people have the right information because it drives better results. Most issues stem from poor communication, so I feel a responsibility to keep everyone on the same page.

Two people who love each other and who are motivated to stay together have the power to work out all conflicts. Working out conflicts, however, takes time, patience, and skillful communication. Partners have to find common ground or be comfortable agreeing to disagree.

It takes time to resolve conflicts because there can be many steps to take until both people feel heard. Talking involves clarifying the problem, understanding the deeper meaning and importance of the problem, making sure each partner understands the other’s position, allowing for the emotions the topic evokes for each person, conveying empathy for each other, and brainstorming until a solution that feels right for bo