I have always been timid when it comes to expressing myself, speaking my mind, and standing up for something. This stems from being raised in a culture where showing emotions is frowned upon. Nothing I ever did seemed good enough. There was constant criticism that I could do better, and be better. I was raised to never to talk back to my seniors and not to say anything when I had nothing nice to say.
a good hearted woman who has the fear of Allah
If you decide to meet someone in person, prioritize your safety. Choose a public place for the meeting and inform a friend or family member about your plans. Trust your instincts and take necessary precautions.
Look for shared values, life goals, and visions for the future. Aligning on important matters can contribute to a fulfilling and harmonious relationship.
Effective communication is fundamental to any successful relationship. Practice active listening, express your feelings openly and honestly, and strive to understand your partner's perspective.
